Faces of Life

i recently just realise that no matter how nice or how good u treat a friend, they will turn their back on you anytime.
I treated a friend very well. I let her stay at my house for a few mths cos her boyfriend cant house her before their house is ready.
We made sure she doesnt wake up hungry. We didnt mind taking care of her cos she is a very nice young gal with a gentle nature and character.She is my teacher's daughter too. We treated her boyfriend equally nice too. We thought we made 2 very nice ppl as friends. They were looking for furniture...I helped them source on auctions and we went furniture shopping together too.
but least did I expect that after they moved to their new home...We were forgotten.
They expect us to go to their place with me lugging my newborn along. Shouldnt it be the other way round?(they come visit me?)
I was baffled...I was very disappointed when they actually made friends with a bunch of ppl who used to bad mouth them all the time. I knew tat these ppl have some motive but i didnt want to say anything.
but wat i cant tolerate is their brother said some stuff about my teacher.
So we told our teacher.
These 2 friends chose to believe the bad guys than us...well wat can we say. They chose to be made used by them than to believe us who r true to our teacher. We never wanted our teacher to help us with our grooming or our dogs. We just want our teacher to rest well and enjoy her stay in Singapore than to slog for some ppl who doesnt put heart into learning.
If the boyfriend is not righteous, I can understand...on business point of view ...u have to be nice to everyone...but now wat he is doing is unbelieveable. I thought in the world of judging you have to be impartial....but today I realise tat's not the case. My poor friend who worked hard at improving herself till she nearly collapsed lost to someone who cant even hold a pair of scissors properly. How weird. Now I know there is so much unfairness in this world. I ask God y he must create such ppl to wreak havoc...nevertheless...wat's done cannot be undone.
And best thing is the nice young gal who is my teacher's daughter actually forgot cleanly how nice we were to her. I practically treated her like my sister and always worried about her.
But now i know they never treated us as friends and was never true to us. We r no longer useful to them thus we r forgotten.
And the one who I always pamper and thought to be innocent turned out to be really cunning and sly.
I hate this circle and I am going to leave it. One day they will realise who has been true.
I will always teach my children to be righteous and always do things with conscience.
I will always tell them to :
Touch your heart....touch your heart

PRIDE

Pride? Everyone has it doesnt it?
U do I do everyone does.
having pride is a good thing. but it can turn nasty too
Today i was totally bashed by this thing. I was hurt....I cried buckets....but pride made sure i suffer.
It has hurt me deep and left gashes of scars in my heart.
As now I know it will not even let loved ones go unscathed.

Sick Sick Sick

sigh....got the flu bug
Ian's been coughing a few days now....and now I got it too
but he doesnt have fever...*touch wood*
I HAVE!!!
Feel so lethargic!
Think I'll pay the dr a visit later or tmr...the dumb panadol doesnt work at all....

A Present to my Dearest

On 13th July,

Our Man of the house has his birthday. He never likes to celebrate it. But I wanted to give him a surprise. So I quietly got him a gift I thought he might like - a nice wooden display chest for his beloved watches. Oh My...trying to get it done without him knowing is hardwork!

I had to wake up in the middle of the night to wrap it and no to mention trying to be really really quiet so as not to wake him!

The product is good..haha so proud of myself.....HEY I took lots of effort and loss of sleep to get it ready ok! Oh not to forget a Birthday Card that Ryan chose himself for his daddy...He has looked up his dad as a hero in his life!

But am so glad and happy that he liked it...

Happy Bday my dear....I'll love u always

catch RYAN for his 600m finals!

Ryan Ryan Ryan Ryan Ryan!!!!!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fnUflcoGjU&feature=related

BB Ian's first roll over

Ian used to hate tummy exercises...but his first attempt on his own was great! He even smiled.

So proud of my little baobei's accomplishment. It is lucky tat we caught it on video too!

Revamp ...my house's new look

Trying to do the modern rustic look....
and we sold the house for a good price too!

Cute Cute Baby...

feel like kissing him again n again n again n again

Ian is 3mths now....

I think he is cuter than the bear

After all the struggle with breastfeeding...we are now starting to enjoy every moment of it now.

And BB Ian is thriving so well juz on my breast milk..isnt it amazing?

I have so many pics of him i want to load but think it will crash the server haha

8wks old

Look at Ryan and Ian...so alike right? Little Ian is has become little Michelin too!

Ian's first smile....it is juz so difficult to get him to smile.....but he's learning

Look how much Ian has grown and he looks juz so adorable.

This is Daddy and Ian sleeping...haha look at the size difference...

but a second look....isnt it so heart warming

Ian's growing fast...

Time flies...Ian is 6 weeks old liao
now he looks like daddy! He is starting to make cooing sounds. He loves cuddling. People say dun carry all the time, let him cry it out. I cant bear to do tat. I think it is ok to give him a sense of security. I think he needs tat. so i carry carry carry hehe...and loving every moment of it.

24th March ..Ian's born

Hi Hi...Ian arrived on 24th march 2008

Oh my he is a splitting image of his Kor Kor Ryan!

He arrived via C-section by Dr Foong Lian Cheng. He is a sensitive and caring doctor.

Ian weighed 3.285kg at birth. He will be a total breast-fed baby!

Before Ian's born

We can finally see this little being's arms legs head....

getting heavy and wish he'll arrive soon...

but at the same time i am so enjoying him being in me. All that kicks and punches he give tells me he's healthy and lively. Mommy is so in love with u already.